Be specific with what you want.

Good day friends!

Well I got to spend a lot of time with Timbot this week because i was sick and took some time off. Then we spent the weekend together.
Hence the lack of blogging because my dear Timbot lives as a mountain man and doesn't have Internet.

The OLYMPICS. OH THE JOY. Go Canada go.Great for the nation, shitty for any chick who wants attention from her boyfriend.

Timbot does NOT know the rules of curling. But does he watch it incessantly. Yes. Of course. Does he cheer? Hell ya. Do we get to make-out on the couch? No! "Babe, wait till the commercial."

And when there is no event happening... have no fear, there are replays of what you already watched there good old Timbot.
Anyways, I love the Olympics, I watched a fair bit, but i grew tired of it and watched some movies on my own upstairs.

But this week i did learn something important. One must be specific in expressing what they want. When i come over, I want to be kissed so I told him that. And I got my kisses but it was the same kinda kiss you plant on grandmas' cheek.
So now I'm specific. During the commercials of the Olympics I'd say, "Baby, come french kiss me." "FRENCH KISS" JEEZ, I haven't used that expression since grade 8.
But I'm using it now, and I'm getting what i want.

I used to be pretty bad at communicating in this relationship, but it really does help to just say what you need. We can't read eachothers minds. Whether you need space or an extra cuddle, I vote you just say it!

BOY LINGO VS GIRL LINGO

UGH!!!!! Its so true that we men and women come from different planets and speak a different lingo!

Tonight i made the mistake of using words/phrases saying things like...
"I want us to invest in our relationship", "focus on 'us" etc"

I know , i know... many of you are probably gagging right now (well i have only one follower so far so maybe not too many gags)

I was actually really happy about the relationship and just trying to convey the idea that i want to spend more time together and keep moving forward etc.

Timbot however took, these phrases to mean that i needed some big drastic change, that i was unhappy, that things weren't good.

(truth is our relationship needs work... but who's doesn't??)

BUT at this point in time i was totally just in a positive mood and thinking out loud.
He on the other hand nearly suffered a small stroke.

I must remember to translate my rambling girl thoughts into "boy lingo" from here on in. I'm ridiculous. My roommate just had a major laugh at me about the whole ordeal.

But its all good. Had a chat with Timbot and set his mind at ease and we both laughed about it. So I'm off to bed while giggling. Not bad for a Monday.

Good night world.

My first blog actionnnn

Hello WORLD!

So today I went to Dunns for breakfast with my boyfriend.(whos internet code name from here on in will be Timbot. ... i was gonna go with "Grumpy pants".. , but if he ever discovers this blog that will just get me in more trouble.
Best homefries around! My homefries were crispy, lovely and perfect.

So were my boyfriend's homefries except... the cook chose to slop down the baked beans all over his home fries. Kinda looked like moist hamster shit actually. He was so disappointed.

I was sweet & considerate offering him some of my non-hamster shit smothered homefries, but he declined.
I was glad he declined. He's the type who would rather just suffer with his crappy homefries and bitch about it... so let him sulk i say. ha!

Nothing like going out for breakfast and watching the olymics on the big screen at a diner. GO CANADA GO!!!
Timbot also grew irriated when the waiter failed to get our bill to us promptly. The tip was steadily depleating as Timbot's frustration grew. I just giggled about the whole thing and tried to throw the waiter lots of smiles so that Grumpy pants... i mean Timbot wouldn't ruin his day. :o)